Movie: Tyler Perry's Temptation: Confessions of a Marriage Counselor
I went to see Tyler Perry's Temptation in the cinema the day after it came out. All I knew about it was it stars Jurnee Smollett. I've long been an admirer of hers, and figured the Tyler Perry movies I've seen had always entertained me, so I bought a ticket without hesitation.
Recently a friend remembered I had mentioned that I was going to see it and asked if I would recommend it. Here's my best recollection of that conversation:
Friend: You think I should put it on my list (of movies to watch)?
Me: I had issues with the plot and themes that make me not want to promote it.
F: Tell me.
M: Do you know anything about it?
F: It's a Tyler Perry movie.
M: Uh huh, it's about a small town girl who grew up loving one man. They grow up together, got married, moved to the big city-
F: He cheats on her?
M: It's called Temptation! She chugs along, content with life; happy with her droll wardrobe and good guy, nerdy but sexy husband-
F: Of course, he's geeky and fine. (sarcasm)
M: I take offense.
F: You know what I mean.
M: It's an American movie - we don't put ugly people on TV. Anyway, she's a little unhappy with work.
F: (chuckling) Perry had to keep it real somewhere.
M: Aside from work, if there is something wrong, she hasn't noticed it's wrong. Enter tall, fit, good looking, charismatic, smart, driven, successful and RICH... I don't remember his name.
F: You never do! Let's call him Sexy, he sounds sexy.
M: Yep, he's super fine. They give him a lot of close-ups so you're sure to notice.
F: I want to see it already. I'm tempted.
M: (sucks teeth, rolls eyes)
F: Okay okay, tell me. He's a sleaze bag when you get to know him?
M: This is her movie. Sexy is just a player in it-
F: What's her name?
M: ... does it matter?
F: (chuckles)
M: Anyway, enter Sexy and she notices everything that makes him attractive, but she's not interested. They have to work closely together, she gets to know him, her attraction to him grows, she can't help but start comparing him and her husband. Her husband isn't measuring up. But, she's steadfast - she resists his blatant attempts at seduction because she's married - she believes in the bond and doesn't want to do anything to taint it. Then during one brazen seduction attempt, he kisses her and starts to feel her up. She repeatedly says, "no," while pushing him away, but, he keeps going. After she has rebuffed him about three times, he gets rougher and says something like, "okay, you've done your duty by protesting, now lets get real," and starts to kiss and feel her up some more.
F: Oh god, does she have a whistle?
M: Exactly! She actively starts to kiss him back, but I'm so confused; is she kissing him because she likes it or because she's afraid he'd beat her face in? It's highly ambiguous. Eventually the scene fades to black and I'm sitting there like, WTF, he just raped her.
F: Just a little ambiguous, then? Sounded like you felt sure.
M: It's only ambiguous because she starts to kiss him back. Throughout the whole scene my mind was on fire and body was getting the heebs cause I thought she was being raped. But, the rape in itself isn't even what makes me not want to recommend this movie. I don't oppose rape scenes as a plot device, but you have to make sure everybody knows it's rape.
F: He just told everyone watching, "even though she said 'no,' she doesn't really mean it - keep going".
M: Yes!
F: Was it rape?
M: I still don't really know. In the next scene she tells him, "I never want to see you again."
F: Rape.
M: The scene after that, we see her hooked on him; wants to see him, talk to him, upset at the thought of him with other women, going to his house.
F: She went crazy. His dick?
M: Because she is in love with him and his dick? Or, because he raped her and instead of accepting she is a rape victim, her mind wants to make the "sex" and their relationship meaningful... so she convinces herself she's in love and proceeds as if it is a relationship?
F: How does it end?
M: Sexy is revealed to be a scumbag, the husband a saint, and she is a trifling chick who didn't know how good she had it and wasted a good husband. Oh, that's the second part of why I left with bad feelings about this movie. It's as if it was written to promote male-pride at the expense of female-pride. Maybe I feel that way because I perceive it from the woman's perspective. I mean the movie eventually reveals Sexy was a scumbag and balances that with the husband being a saint. I wasn't surprised and I didn't even care that he was a scum, I had already sussed that out for myself. But, Tyler writes it as if all the blame is on her - she was painted in such a terrible light for falling into a trap.
F: C'mon, she dropped a good man for a rapey sleazebag - a cautionary tale.
M: She started out so wholesome. She snapped somewhere.
F: His dick.
M: The rape.
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To be clear, when my friend says, "his dick," she means his masterful sexual prowess. It's so phenomenal, it's guaranteed to make smart women lose their sense.
Links:
IMDB: Tyler Perry's Temptation
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Me: To top it off, Sexy gave her HIV.
Friend: Awww, poor Saintly Husband.
M: He didn't catch it.
F: Huh?
